Family, Identity

Victim

October 1, 2019

I am a victim; I was a victim; I am victimized; I was victimized; All of the above. Victim – another word that some are trying to distort and weaponize. Similarly to the way ‘pity’ has somehow become a negative thing, ’empathy’ a weakness and [read more]

Family, Identity

Making Dreams Come True

April 29, 2019

Earlier today I watched a video of someone’s dream become reality. A great personal achievement that they got to share with a supportive crowd. This was a ‘creative arts’ kind of thing, although performance is not a necessary aspect of great dreams. Do you know [read more]

Family, Identity

Am I An Elder?

April 10, 2019

Last week I referred to myself as an elder- and was asked who had granted me the title of Elder. My first step was to check out what Mr. Webster’s (and some others) collections of definitions had to say. Some indigenous and long-ago ‘Western’ cultures [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

What’s On My Mind, Facebook Asks

December 6, 2018

40 years ago Harvey Milk was assassinated. 40 years ago next Spring, what would become the world-wide phenomenon of Perpetual Indulgence also erupted in SanFran. 40 years ago next Feb some Canadian queers celebrated the first annual Pink Triangle Day. 40 years ago this summer [read more]

Family, Identity

Teddy Bear Tears

November 12, 2017

This post is part of a series on memory, repression, and freedom; as a follow-up to my ongoing therapy series. After a long break, I’m about to present two memories that ‘do not compute’- as I promised to do earlier this year. And here I [read more]