Family, Identity

The Price of Freedom

November 27, 2025

Regular readers and visitors to my various social media accounts (these days I’m primarily on Insta) know that my husband and I are working to move to Canada. As I’m a Canadian (actually, dual) citizen I can sponsor his application for Permanent Resident status up [read more]

Card Readings

Year End Discount

November 22, 2025

From now until December 31, 2025 save 15% off Digital Gryphon Decks at TheGamecrafter.com (except for the Tarot of Sister Who, Jumbo Size and Sister Flirt’s Holographic Meditations) with [expired discount code]. The tariffs created by this regime have worked their way through TGC’s supply [read more]

Designs I Like

2026 R&P Wall Calendar

November 20, 2025

Let’s go retro! Romanovsky & Phillips 2026 Wall Calendar Feeling like we need to fight for our rights all over again? Let the music and lyrics of ground-breaking gay folk duo Romanovsky & Phillips light the fire. Resist. Enter 2026 on a high note. Wall [read more]

Family, Identity

All Hallows Eve

October 28, 2025

Hallowe’en is well-known (at least in my world) as a Big GAY Holiday that has all the celebration of modern gay pride parties without the direct connection to our painful history. That’s not meant as a criticism; there’s plenty of evidence that celebration (laughter and [read more]

Designs I Like

Queer Gift Idea- December Rose

October 25, 2025

December Rose World AIDS Day 2010 All the photographs in this volume were taken on December 1st 2010; World Aids Day. “Why roses?” you might ask. I could talk about their near-universal symbolism or ruminate on how artificial modern hybrid roses are; genetically-altered mutants bred [read more]

Card Readings

I Want to See Your Queer Deck

October 16, 2025

As I settle into being a Queer Elder (due to age, some experience, and alotta luck) my energies are devoted to sharing what I’ve learned. One way I can blend my “lived experience” with skills and training is to help bring forward Tarot and Oracle [read more]