Family, Identity

All Hallows Eve

October 28, 2025

Hallowe’en is well-known (at least in my world) as a Big GAY Holiday that has all the celebration of modern gay pride parties without the direct connection to our painful history. That’s not meant as a criticism; there’s plenty of evidence that celebration (laughter and [read more]

Designs I Like

Queer Gift Idea- December Rose

October 25, 2025

December Rose World AIDS Day 2010 All the photographs in this volume were taken on December 1st 2010; World Aids Day. “Why roses?” you might ask. I could talk about their near-universal symbolism or ruminate on how artificial modern hybrid roses are; genetically-altered mutants bred [read more]

Card Readings

I Want to See Your Queer Deck

October 16, 2025

As I settle into being a Queer Elder (due to age, some experience, and alotta luck) my energies are devoted to sharing what I’ve learned. One way I can blend my “lived experience” with skills and training is to help bring forward Tarot and Oracle [read more]

Family, Identity

What is Love?

October 12, 2025

When I was interviewed by K for the Lost Spaces Podcast he asked me (in response to something I’d said) ““what is love?” My off the cuff my response was “the greatest joy and the greatest heartache all wrapped in one” (at 26:04 in the [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

LGBTQ History Month

October 1, 2025

October is celebrated as LGBT/Queer History Month in some places. I have picked out just a few posts from the hundred+ in my LGBTiTQQ2S and Family & Identities categories to highlight. Today in Canadian Queer History looks at “Operation Soap” – the 1981 Toronto bathhouse [read more]