Family, Identity

What’s My Gender?

January 27, 2026

An interesting question. To the extent I think about it, I identify as male– although with the understanding that I am very much a GNC: Gender Non-Compliant male. As a sexually-active gay man with a Husband in ‘modern Western society’ I am clearly out of [read more]

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What Makes a Man, a Man?

May 17, 2023

Originally posted 02/25/2011. Far from an in-depth piece, and only tangentially relevant to current events, I am fighting decades of white Canadian Middle class training to not brag, stand out, or rattle cages and re-sharing this little gem of mine.

Designs I Like

Born Again Tee Shirts

July 5, 2020

Be proud of your spiritual growth. Few of us are raised in Wiccan or other so-called “heathen” traditions; we come to it in our own way. Honour that journey to your second life; born again as whatever form your spiritual paradigm takes (perhaps just for [read more]

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Review- Missed Her

November 29, 2016

Missed Her by Ivan E Coyote Arsenal Pulp Press, Vancouver BC ISBN 978-1-55152-371-2 © Copyright 2010 Another collection of two dozen plus short stories. This was a quick read, partly because some of the stories are also found in One In Every Crowd. This is [read more]

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Darling Days by iO Tillett Wright

October 22, 2016

This is not a review in any traditional sense. Rather, I will talk about how much I identify with certain quotes, themes and images from its pages. This book is a memoir, a look back at the author’s early years- born in 1985 and just [read more]